Have you ever had one of those delicious moments when everything in your life just seemed to “click?” If so, you were in The Circle. I invite you to join me in a journey to this special place where you realise your dreams. We will begin this process by discovering your heart’s deepest desire.
Take your time now in selecting your wish. Ask yourself many questions, starting with the examples here. Let your mind run free. Draw up a long list, then narrow it down.
What single change in your life would give you the most joy?
What single change would bring you the most relief? What is your biggest concern?
What issue do you spend most of your emotional energy on?
What lack is the source of your greatest sorrow?
What is the one thing that you most envy in others?
Envy can be a positive motivator. Let it inspire you to work harder for what you want.
If you knew you couldn’t fail – as if a genie would grant it – what would you wish for?
Keep in mind that a wish need not be “reasonable” or “rational” or deserved.” Nor is a wish a “should” or “must” or “would have.” Your wish now should be the thing you ache for, your soul’s deepest need. You may have many desires, so it may not be easy to decide on just one. For now though, you must choose just one wish to create
Use the right language
In the past, you may have wished for many things that you did not receive. This is because there is an alchemy of wishing. When someone experiences an event as happening in the future, it does not yet exist for that person. And if something does not yet exist, it is not possible for that person to experience and change it.
In The Circle, the acts of wishing and receiving are simultaneous; there is no distinction between past, present, and future. The future occurs now. So in The Circle, there is not “I want,” but rather “I have.” Phrase your wish as if it has already happened. If you focus on “I want,” you direct your inner resources to reinforce wanting rather than having. If you focus on “I have,” “I am,” “I feel,” or “I embrace,” your inner resources will find opportunities for this to be true.
So instead of saying, “I wish I would fall in love,” within The Circle you say, “I am in love.” Instead of saying, “I wish I weren’t struggling financially,” you wish, “I am earning all the money I want, doing something I love.” Once you wish within The Circle, we call your wish your New Reality because it is already happening, right now.
It is also important to phrase your wish positively, in terms of what you want, rather than negatively, in terms of what you might be trying to avoid. When you wish in the negative, you focus your attention and energy on the very thing you don’t want, which directs your unconscious to reinforce it.
Instead of focusing on what is not happening at work, say, focus on creating recognition and success. In doing so, you direct your inner resources to notice opportunities to achieve your goals that you would otherwise have overlooked.
Instead of, “I wish I weren’t sick,” you say, “I am healthy and full of energy.” Instead of saying, “I wish I weren’t alone,” you say, “I am involved in a loving committed relationship.” Remember always to phrase your wish as if it were already fulfilled.
If your wish is to be heard within The Circle, then, it should be specific, positive, passionate, and present. Wish for one thing at a time, know precisely what you want – and embrace that wish with all your heart and soul as if it has already come to pass.
By doing so, you will unleash amazing energies. State your wish out loud. Now embrace it. You are creating yourself and the world anew.